When you begin to love yourself, this feeling makes you be heard and seen by others. A time comes when we all desire to show others our work or our actions.
This is the reason why many people do philanthropic work.
In your case, when you go out, you can throw a smile at the security man who has stayed awake guarding your building from negative forces. You can look at the shopkeeper who waits for customers to stop and buy some stationeries.
The point is never say no to yourself because the world is beautiful.
Life is good.